I am also working on a project that has a large green roof with light colored gravel in some areas. The manufacturer has not performed testing to provide an SRI value for the gravel. However the Lawrence Berkeley National Laboratory (LBNL) has published a list of default SRI values for various types of roof membrane materials, including gravel. See the link below:
http://energy.lbl.gov/coolroof/membrane.htm#membrane

Has anyone successfully used a default SRI value for gravel? If not, does this mean i need to count all gravel-covered areas as non-compliant?